The also say: "Many of great men son, Their Downfall came because of a Woman"
We all want to achieve the first.... But blinded by emotions it is not hard to fall into the path of the 2nd. The one thing that can throw almost any man off his path is a woman that he loves, that wants to control him Or makes him dependent on her love. Once he becomes dependent on her love, then she can control his emotions by the way she treats him.... But if that woman is a great woman, then the man has lil to worry bout, right?
What is this word "Great"? How does a man become great?
Is it a Mansion, a Benz, and A Bank Account that's Stunning with Big Numbers?
Is it living close to your family and being there for them and loving them?
Is it traveling the world and learning languages and cultures firsthand?
To me Greatness is a combination of the 3 former lines. I must achieve all 3 before I'm dead and gone. The Mansion and Benz to me means just working hard and making money. Some might disagree with me, say money is not important, but Money makes the world go round. Money is power and a Man has got to achieve more than just love, family, and travel. He has got to get down and dirty, join the competition and get a piece of the pie. Even when the pie shrinks because of the economic woes.
SCARFACE the movie taught us that "In this country first you get the money, then you get the power, then you get the girl"
Islamic teachings tell us to get married quick and young, then worry bout money later.
Pakistani culture follows Scarface's Lesson!! haha
But this is life, and these are the little challenges and questions that face a young man....
All i know is that I'm a young hustler.... I am never gonna stop hustling and trying to achieve my mini formula of Greatness. And When you see me around, if you got a word or two for me about greatness to you, please fill me in. A great man always keeps his ears and eyes open to seek more knowledge and experience.
Pics from My last Getaway: 10 days (5 in Syria and 5 in Lebanon). With 4 Amigos from Spain and myself. We rented a car and saw almost all of Lebanon in those 5 days. We spent 2 nights camping on the Beach of Beirut, making fires through the night, smoking argeela on the Beach and watching the stars from the Mediterranean coast.
Dannesh

4 comments:
Bro, be sure to stop off in GREENVILLE SOUTH CAROLINA on your route back for a few days!
we gotta hit up the boring life and you can see the AMAZING ways of boring!
YUP man its all true. so u found urself a woman?=p
Bro..hows it going..i finally started a blog too..hope i can blog as much as you : ) http://mtaqui.blogspot.com/
Now..here is my take on what is this word Great???
Imam Ali (AS) our great role model never said he was great until the end of his life after being struck by Ibn Mujlim he said "By the Lord of the Kaba, I'm successful"
The question is how do you define this "success" or "greatness" and how you achieve it.
In my definition of greatness, you achieve all of these as only MEANS (mansion, the benz, the family, the love, the travel) to get you closer to Allah.
Now all of these do help you reach that goal..
You mention in point 1 struggle, i think struggle is a key component in getting close to Allah. Family is obvioulsy key as it is commanded by God to love and take care of your family, Lastly yes traveling will make you appreciate Allah's creation, an ayat in the Quran says someting like "I (Allah) have created you into nations and tribes so you get to know each other"
Asalaam D! niiice post; this topic of ‘greatness’ def requires some thinkin and experiencin. Interesting to hear ur side, lookin forward to sharing my pearls of wisdom when ur back. Inshallah all is well with you. That beach is Beirut is beaaautiful. Take care- ro
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